We asked Toni Jackson a few questions to get to know her better.
How did you get involved with FAPAC?
I just wanted to be a Momma and help children enjoy childhood! One of my best friends from college (Howard University) is a social worker and directed me to foster care. I attended the DC government Child & Family Services Agency (CFSA) orientation, then later a training on foster care. However, I still did not have a grasp on what to expect from children placed in care and answers to real-life questions once I become a foster parent. At CFSA’s training, a couple referred me to FAPAC, a non-profit that is more hands-on, informative, and supportive in navigating the “in and outs” of foster care. FAPAC offered an eight-week foster parent training course that I attended, and I met several foster and adoptive parents and their children. There, I learned about the foster care process, what to expect, and heard real-life experiences and circumstances surrounding children in care, and how parents managed raising them. FAPAC gave me the knowledge and understanding that better prepared me for a placement. Ironically, twins were placed with me on the last day of class. FAPAC is the reason I’m a proud adoptive mother of those twins! Without the knowledge, guidance, and care FAPAC provided, I would have dropped out, thinking I didn’t have what it takes. I’m excited to now share my journey and knowledge with prospective foster parents as the Recruitment Specialist for FAPAC!
How has being a foster parent shaped your experience as a recruiter?
Being a foster parent has enabled me to speak knowledgeably, confidently, and unwaveringly about the needs, supports, services, and engagement required for foster parents, as well as for the children and youth in our homes. I love talking with fellow foster parents and sharing our experiences, as listening to others has improved my household management and my ability to help others. As parenting experiences differ for infants, toddlers, teens, and young adults, I can only be a sharp recruitment specialist for FAPAC by staying actively involved as a foster parent.
